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Chia, Mantak; Arava, Douglas Abrams (1997). The Multi-orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets that Every Man Should Know. HarperCollins. ISBN 978-0-7225-3325-3. OCLC 973684904. Archived from the original on 2011-12-12. Although I love a wide array of kinks, everyone has limits, and I'm no exception. My limits as a dominant include homophobia, transphobia, race play, non christian/catholic blasphemy, and bare foot worship.We use safe words. Colors work good...yellow= keep going but softer......red=get the freaken off me now and untie me. Orgasm denial practices can allow the dominant to exercise control over many aspects of the submissive's life. As such, they are often (though not always) practiced as an extension or enhancement of a broader BDSM relationship, or as a means of establishing one. They can allow the dominant to experience enjoyable and sometimes intensely craved feelings of sexual control and erotic power, and the submissive can enjoy intense feelings of sexual objectification and submission to the dominant.

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