For these reasons, the biggest obstacle to finding and maintaining a loving relationship is often us. We have to get to know what defenses we bring to the table that ward off love. For example, if we grew up feeling rejected, we may feel anxious about getting too close to another person. We may not feel we can really trust or rely on a partner, so we either cling to that person or ward him or her off, both which lead to the same result of creating distance. Listen to your heart, to your own intuitive wisdom, when making important decisions, especially when deciding about a gift of destiny. Destiny will deposit its gift, directly at your feet, but what you subsequently decide to do with that gift is up to you. If you rely exclusively on the advice of others, you may make terrible mistakes. Your heart knows what you need. Other people have other agendas.

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With Only Love Is Real, Dr. Weiss takes his research one breathtaking step further. He portrays two strangers unaware that they have been lovers throughout the long centuries, until they are brought together again.How will we recognize our loved ones? Will we know them, and will they know us, if and when we meet again, whether in heaven or on earth, once more in physical bodies? Many of my patients just seem to know. When experiencing their past lives, they look into a soul companion's eyes, and they know. Whether in heaven or on earth, they sense vibration or energy, and it is the same as their loved one's. They glimpse the deeper personality, and there is an inner knowing - a knowing from the heart. A connection is made. Because it is the heart's eyes that often see first, words alone cannot convey the confidence of soul recognition. There is no wavering or confusion. Even though the body may be very different from the current one, the soul is the same. The soul is recognized, and the recognition is complete and beyond any doubt. Sometimes soul recognition may originate in the mind and may occur even before the heart sees. This type of recognition happens most often with babies or young children. They exhibit some physical mannerism or unique behavior, they utter a word or phrase, and a beloved parent or grandparent is instantly recognized. They may have an identical scar or birthmark as your loved one or perhaps just hold your hand or look at you in that same special way. You know. In heaven, there are no birthmarks. In heaven, where physical bodies are not needed, soul recognition may occur through an inner knowing, a sense of a loved one's special energy, light, or vibration. You feel them, in your heart. There is a deep and intuitive wisdom there, and you recognize them completely and immediately. They may even help you by assuming the body they had during their last incarnation with you. You see them as they appeared to you on earth, often younger and healthier. They will know your name. They will hold your hand. They will bring peace and healing to your heart. Challenge the defensive reactions you had (as a child self) that no longer serve you in the present

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In the answer to that question lay a gripping drama of which none of them-neither psychiatrist nor his patients-was yet aware, a drama that would nevertheless begin to unfold in the unsuspecting serenity of the doctor’s office. Avoid the “tit for tat” mentality. Love is an action each of us must choose for ourselves. When we start measuring what we do for each other, we create expectations and breed resentment instead of staying in touch with how good it feels to be loving toward someone else. He shows how each and every one of us has a soulmate whom we have loved in past incarnations and who waits to reunite with us now.I have been told so many things in my life and never really had good examples of a “healthy” relationship. Which is probably why I cling to this Hollywood idea of “love at first sight” and undying love for another. I was once told that a relationship should come naturally. Yes you have a few disagreements, but for the most part, it should flow without major issues or effort. Then, there is everyone else saying that relationships take work and nothing comes easy. But how do we know which is true? Are there really relationships out there were the couple have this ultimate connection and never truly have to work too much to keep it flowing? Do we just think that isnt the case because so many have never found that and have just excepted that relationships do truly take a lot of time and effort? Which is real?

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I previously read Many Lives, Many Masters before reading this book. The simple narrative style is the same in Only Love Is Real, but I still really enjoyed this book. The lessons from the Masters were so interesting and I found myself nodding my head in agreement to their messages/lessons. I'm so grateful that we're able to receive this type of information in a way that is easy to understand and learn from. The topic of true love has been debated for centuries. Cynics often swear it doesn’t exist, while hopeless romantics think everyone should set out to find their soulmates. With science now showing that true love is not only possible, but can actually last a lifetime, we’ve decided to look at the psychological elements that allow love to bloom or fade. This book, as the title suggests, goes deeper into the relationships between souls, and the different kinds of love souls can share over the centuries. I particularly liked this passage:Noncontrolling, nonmanipulative and nonthreatening behaviors vs. manipulations of dominance and submission

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Communicate what you feel. Don’t expect your partner to read your mind. Saying what you want and feel directly helps you avoid passive-aggressive or nasty ways of relating. It also encourages your partner to do the same. It is a drama of life after life, of destiny and hope. It is a story that happens silently every day. Support the things that light your partner up. Never stop supporting and encouraging your partner to be the most alive and to do the things that make your partner feel the most like him/herself… even when those things aren’t what matter most to you. Be aware of your critical inner voice. We all have an inner enemy that criticizes ourselves and our partner and undermines our closest relationships

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Break routine. If doing the same thing is deadening your excitement, be open to breaking the habit and making space for spontaneity. Whether you believe in PLRT or not, I don't think anyone can deny the importance of the advice/lessons you're receiving when you read this book. The idea that love conquers all is something that people forget in times of selfishness, greed, etc. We get so lost in our own lives/desires that we often take others and our lives for granted. This book feels like it's trying to remind us of what's important. And that's love! We need to love each other and our planet so that the collective can heal together.