Watching my Hot Wife - Shared With my Boss

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It’s not a guarantee that something dodgy is happening, but start asking questions if there’s a noticeable change. She denied " liking it" and said she hates him for being a pervert but that she felt I wasn't first in line for the promotion.

So now, I'm sitting here at work with a hard on thinking about tonight with my wife...good Lord how to women do that to us men?We sat down and I just listened to her. She told me she looked at a few places to stay for a bit longer to clear her head but was upset at how crap they were and that home was comfortable. My wife indicated she needed space for 3-4 weeks to evaluate everything that she has done without having everyone in her ear. My wife has always been a person that likes her own space to think and I could clearly see she was getting bombarded from our close family, myself and her friends. My wife said she needed time to see why her feelings for her boss were strong and if it was infatuation or was it something more. I agreed that time apart would be good. Even though I still love her so much, I wanted her to have a clear mind before we move forward with the marriage. I want her to realize that the grass isn’t always greener on the other side and that what she had at home, a family, means more to her than an emotional affair with her boss. I’m now not sleeping properly and I’m on antidepressants to help me through it all. I still love my wife as strong as ever but I’m on edge waiting for the next blow. I’m struggling to cope with the fact she still works at same place. I know the healing process is going to be tough and that it will take time but the truth is I’m not sure we can recover 100% from this but I’m not going to ever give up on trying to rebuild my marriage. I just hope it’s finally over between them but the question is how can I be sure it is? Here is the story. This happened 2 years ago. My wife had to go on a business trip about 10 hours away for 2 weeks. We have 2 kids under 10. This is a yearly thing to different places for the past 8 years. I know all the people that also go at the same time from her work. (She no longer works at this place). A lot of the women that she works with are around the same age or older and are single or divorced. This made me a little uncomfortable through the years, but they weren't too bad. She would tell me stories about how some of them had side pieces all over the place especially this one lady. I would hear stories about this lady going out of town and meeting this guy at every different opening because he worked for the company too at another location and they would make sure to be there together. She has now gone out and organised councelling and says she wants to do everything she can to make it better. However her actions do not match her words. We are keeping it private however I have lost 16kgs in 6 weeks and very withdrawn from everyone so people are asking questions. Mean while she is happy and going on as life as normal. Also I went OS for a week after finding out about the physical affair and was very stressed over there. She knew this and was available on the phone to help me. When I arrived home a week later she was in bed????

She says there is nothing going on between them, that she's only trying to make a good impression and I'm being paranoid, she says she loves me and wouldn't be with me if she wanted someone else and I really want to believe her. This weekend they are supposed to go away for a convention and she'll be gone for 2 weeks. I've already told her that I feel uncomfortable about the trip and now she says I'm controlling and she seems determined to go whether I like it or not. Now, i never saw no r heard from my fiance after that, i heard years later that she had been through a lot of men and had 4 kids and was living alone with the kids!I was always going to the pub for after-work drinks,’ says Catherine, ‘because I wanted to see the coworker I fancied.’ We have common interests, I am physically attracted to her still. But I am bother by these aspects still after 20 plus years. so yes, I completely consider affairs as a “boundary” issue…crass and despicable. there are plenty of other options that prove a person has character and integrity with honest disagreements with a spouse. After a few too many, the managing director lets it slip that my wife liked to be humiliated in bed and that he had slept with her. After the MD gets even drunker he starts to claim that this was the first time she ever enjoyed sex and that he's " looking forward to the next time." None of her cheating was my fault. I’m smart, attractive, fun, a good parent and…I hope…a good husband. It was some psychological issue that manifested in this damaging behavior. But I’m terrified the damage done to me, individually, can never be repaired. It’s been 10-years since she cheated on me. I would’ve expected to be over this long ago…but the pain still appears and the anxiety manifests itself in weird ways. For example, after all of this happened, I studied a bit about infidelity and the associated psychology and physiology traits found in cheaters. I read that women are more likely to flirt/cheat right around ovulation. Makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint, but I should not worry about my ovulating wife while she’s away for two weeks working at a camp. She’s kept her vows for 10-years, why should I doubt her now? Just because a guy said something on a blog about fertile woman being likely to flirt/participate in an affair? Pfft…that doesn’t seem right.

I miss him terribly. I’m also sad that I perhaps misjudged him, and wonder if he isn’t such a lovely person . I know he has two adult children and problems with his wife. The remainder of the night was quiet. Since the event, Jim’s wife only said two words via text “I’m fine”.

1. Estimates are that 25%-40% of women and 50%-60% of men will have an affair during the lifetime of their marriage.

My best friend ( we're both 30M) from work ended up on a business trip led by a particular managing director, and after a long day of meetings they all went out to drink. In hindsight I was severely depressed and needed my wife to help me get out of it. I now also realize that my wife was severely depressed and took the symptoms of my depression and PTSD to be signs that I no longer was in love with her. An example of this is that I would start work at 11am but not shower or do any personal hygiene until 6 or 7 at night. My wife would come home and I would give her a very unpassionate kiss and she took it to mean that I didn't want her. I was just embarrassed that I hadn't handled any daily hygiene yet and I didn't want to be in her face.