Spanking the Babysitter - Complete Set: Life lessons of an in-demand babysitter who likes to be spanked (Paula Mann Complete Sets Series)

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Turning to me, and looking me straight in the eyes, Doris continued, “My name is Doris, but you may call me ma’am, as in ‘yes ma’am’ or ‘no ma’am’, as the situation dictates. Your wife has asked me to help her provide discipline in your life, which, by all reports from her and your sister-in-law, is sorely needed.” Marrianne was scraping the remnants of a good breakfast off the plates and into our garbage container when she made that comment. The tomato, bacon and cheese omelet I made for us turned into a cold lump in my stomach. Let them know from the start exactly what methods you'd like them to use to manage your child's behavior. And more importantly, be clear on what methods you don't want them to resort to, including spanking. What You Should Do if Your Babysitter Spanks Your Child

So yes, it's okay for a babysitter to discipline your child. Just not by resorting to physical or emotional punishment or other harmful techniques. Of course, when there are no discipline issues involved, embarrassing a boy for no reason is not justified under any circumstances. Babysitters who needlessly taunt or make fun of a boy as he is undressing or once he is naked shouldn't be babysitting. I decided to never raise the topic again, but to keep it relegated to my fantasy life. Our married life together was mostly happy and rewarding, so there really was no need to change it, even though spanking remained a frequent, secret fantasy. My birthday came and passed without incident that year, just as so many had done each year of my life. If your sitter still ends up spanking your child, or you have seen warning signs in your child, that should be grounds for firing them immediately.I married Jason in the mid 80s, and at the time his son Steven had just turned five years old. Jason’s ex had a big drug problem so he had had custody of the boy since they broke up, when Steven was just two. If physical punishment isn't normal in your household, your older child may come to you for help and let you know that a sitter has spanked them on their own. Although in some cases, kids may be too afraid to tell parents that a caregiver has hit them for fear of retribution. So just because your child doesn't tell you that a sitter is hitting them isn't a guarantee that it's not going on. Both kids nodded their heads and for the first time in a while they listened closely as this was very interesting.

Different families will have different discipline styles, so it's best not to assume that a babysitter has the same beliefs regarding discipline that you do. You might catch the babysitter in the act of spanking when you come home, or your child may confide to you that the babysitter has hit them while you were away. Oh my God!” Jessica screamed, startled, as her boyfriend tried desperately to pull his jeans up. The father spared him but a glance.

Physical Warning Signs of Spanking or Child Abuse

That evening we all went out for our family dinner – GivanTake, Miss Chris, Sarah, Jenni, and Bobby too. What a wonderful way to wind down from a busy party weekend. and a bit heavy, but with a pleasant manner and an engaging smile. I have had little interaction with her myself, I saw David for his 2nd punishment spanking for drinking and driving. You can read his version of the session in my testimonials section in my members area. His girlfriend Lindsay also wrote a report. I caned David 16 times – something he’d never had done before and surely doesn’t want again.